WOMAN VS LADY

WOMAN VS LADY:
OKAY, LET’S GET THIS SORTED OUT ONCE AND FOR ALL…
AND THIS IS THE WORLD ACCORDING TO ME OBVIOUSLY. I AM ONLY THE BOSS OF ME AND WHO I AM SO I REALLY DON’T NEED ANYONE ELSE’S DEFINITION, K? WOOT, THERE IT IS = THE FIRST SIGN OF WOMAN!
A WOMAN DEFINES HERSELF. SHE IS NOT CONCERNED ABOUT WHAT THE WORLD THINKS SHE OUGHT TO LOOK LIKE, DRESS LIKE, ACT LIKE OR SPEAK LIKE. SHE IS HER OWN PERSON.
A WOMAN IS FREE. SHE ALLOWS NO ONE TO SET HER STANDARDS, DETERMINE WHAT SHE IS GOING TO DO WITH HER REALITY OR IMPOSE ANY EXTERNAL VALUES ON HER REALITY.
A WOMAN IS COMFORTABLE BEING ‘OUT’ WITH OR WITHOUT MAKEUP, WEARS HEELS WHEN SHE FEELS LIKE IT AND FLATS WHEN SHE DOESN’T. A WOMAN DRESSES FOR THE WEATHER AND/OR HER MOOD AND NOT TO DELIBERATELY ENTICE.
A WOMAN HAS HER OWN UNIQUE BRAND OF APPEAL. YOU WON’T FIND HER STYLE STRAIGHT OUT OF ESSENCE, COSMO, VANITY FAIR OR WHATEVER THE LATEST TREND IS. SHE SETS HER OWN STYLE.
A WOMAN THINKS. SHE WILL CONSIDER WHAT YOU ARE SAYING BUT ULTIMATELY SHE IS GOING TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR HERSELF AND NOT WHAT SOMEONE ELSE THINKS IS RIGHT FOR HER.
A WOMAN HAS THE GOOD SENSE TO KNOW THAT OTHER WOMEN ARE HER ALLIES AND NOT HER ENEMIES. SHE KNOWS THAT OTHER WOMEN ARE NOT ONLY NOT COMPETITION TO HER BUT A LOVING SHOULDER TO LEAN ON. SHE IS NOT THREATENED BY HER SISTERS.
A WOMAN IS SECURE. SHE KNOWS HOW TO HANDLE HER BUSINESS AND SHE DOES SO WITH A GLAD HEART. WHEN SHE DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO GET THE JOB DONE SHE KNOWS HOW TO ACCESS HER RESOURCES, NOT WITH MANIPULATION AND ‘APPEAL’ BUT WITH A DELIBERATENESS THAT DOES NOT RELY ON ‘CHARM’.
A WOMAN CHOOSES TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. SHE DOESN’T NEED A RELATIONSHIP TO COMPLETE HER. AND WHEN SHE DOES ENTER IN SHE IS ‘ALL IN’.
A WOMAN IS NOT AFRAID TO EXPRESS HER NEEDS. SHE IS FORCOMING AND DOES NOT HAVE TO BE CAJOLED, BUGGED, BEGGED, BOTHERED UNTIL SHE ‘SAYS WHAT’S WRONG’.
A WOMAN IS NOT AFRAID TO GET HER HANDS DIRTY. SHE EAGERLY TAKES ON THINGS OF INTEREST NO MATTER WHAT TRADITION HAS DICTATED.
A WOMAN CAN STRAIGHT TALK. SHE WOULD RATHER CUT TO THE CHASE THAN TIPTOE AROUND WITH FALSE DELICACY.
A WOMAN’S COMPLIMENTS TO ANOTHER ARE SINCERE, SHE DOES NOT DELIBERATELY PAD HER CONVERSATION OR COMMENTS TO ARTIFICIALLY INFLATE OTHERS’ EGOS.
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